Tuesday, October 02, 2007

See? New month, new attitude.

A couple Saturdays ago I tried to jot down notes as Tommy and I were playing. His imagination just enchants me- I think I am especially amazed by it because Henry's never been much into imagining things. So the stuff Thomas comes up with just always surprises me. At the time I think I will remember it to tell someone about, but then it flits right out of my head again.

This day I think he was Fastman, and rode in a thundercar. Before leaving to fight the bad guys though, he had to stop to put on his boy makeup and put in his boy contacts. (Can you tell that he follows me around in the mornings?)

I was instructed to ride next to him in the pinkcar, and he used a Wendy's coupon as a swipecard to start our vehicles.


We soon moved outside to easier battle bad guys by running around in circles around the front yard and jumping over things that daddy had recently planted in the yard. They were actually powerful plants that give you certain powers if you touch them.

Later that day we went shopping and, while he wasn't able to decide on a Halloween costume, (that's going to be a really tough one this year. We've already returned one Spiderman costume after the love was gone) he did get one of those little-kid backpacks that also have a pull-handle and wheels. He modeled that thing all over the store: see? You can put it on your back like this, and see? you can pull it on wheels like this. Wait mommy, I want to put my new jammies in my new backpack. Ooooh mommy, look at the Halloween decorations...

Here he has gathered all his Pooh buddies to watch a Winnie the Pooh video. (This is the couch in our basement- much as I would secretly like to, I have not hung a Harry Potter poster up on the main floor of our house.) Also included in the group are the ghost that makes spooky sounds (also found shopping that day) and a garage-sale St. Bernard dog. The dog makes a great superhero because he can carry all kinds of imaginary tools/weapons in the barrel around his neck.

If you're getting the impression that I spoil this kid- buying him unnecessary Halloween stuffed ghosts and backpacks-on-wheels, well, you're right. I do spoil him. I have realized that recently, as every day when I pick him up he asks "did you get me anything today?" It's pretty wrong that at least once a week I say "yes, I did! Some new socks, a Batman flashlight, a Winnie the Pooh video..."

I think I got into this habit with Henry, because his interests are so specific, and he is so hard to please, yet easy to please. I pick up Disney books whenever I find them at the consignment shop, or randomly order Star Wars coloring books for him on the internet to replace the ones that he can't find anymore and can't stop asking about.

But Henry has never seemed "spoiled" by it- he sometimes will ask if I got him something at the store, but I guess the difference is that he doesn't cry when I tell him I didn't get him anything.

So, I am trying to be more conscious of this and if I do pick something up for either boy, think about saving it for a later occasion.

Last night was just such an occasion- Henry's aunt had pre-ordered the Jungle Book DVD for him for his birthday. Today, October 2, is the release date, and of course we have it marked on our calendar. Well, it turns out that when you pre-order from Disney, you receive the DVD even before it is in the stores!!! Who knew? So it arrived yesterday, and Henry was over the moon about it!

It seemed like a good time to pull out the Ninja Turtle pajamas that I had picked up for Tommy last week, so he had something to be excited about also. Last night was a good night at our house!

And finally, relevant to none of this, here is a picture of the delicious salad I made today at Wild Oats:



I thought it looked so colorful and fresh that I would take a photo- I know, I'm weird. This salad cost enough money, I am hoping to make it last a couple days, and maybe I'll get this photo framed :-)

9 comments:

Eileen said...

That Tommy sure is a character!

Mmmm, the salad does look good.

Guess what Brian asks me everyday when we are walking back from the bus stop? Yep, you guessed it, "did you get me anything today?". Spoil my children? Who me? Yes, guilty! And, like you, I think it has to do with my desperate need to find something to please Andrew. In the meantime I have spoiled the typical child by trying to "be fair".

Anonymous said...

I love that "fierce" look on his face!

Could you detail what all was on that salad? 'Cause it just made my tummy growl!

Anonymous said...

tommy IS fastman! so imaginative! i love his pretend play mind--so fluid and alive!

and i'm the same way with fluffy, with the buying of things. i totally relate!

Niksmom said...

Um, guilty here too on buying stuff...and Nik doesn't even care! LOL

Great post. Tommy is something else...very creative! Love it.

tulipmom said...

What an imaginative mind that Tommy has.

Another guilty one here when it comes to shopping for SB. Although I have toned it down a bit in the last year. Still my cabinet full of "just because" items is getting so full I can barely shut the door. Either SB shows a new interest and I'm so excited I want to run with it, or I see something semi-educational that might help him get excited about say telling time or reading or whatever, and I buy the item hoping it will entice him. Or, and as is most often the case, it's something having to do with one of passions and I rationalize that with all he's been dealing with, something that makes him smile isn't a luxury; it's a necessity.

Mom without a manual said...

Uh, have you seen our toy room, uh, their bedrooms, uh, my house?

With JP I just kept buying toys (consigment sales of course) thinking that he would play with them. Of course then we realized he didn't know how to play with them. Now I can't get rid of anything until I am convinced that little T doesn't want them. You never know, he might end up liking the dancing Care Bear that sings Olivia Newton John "Let's get Physical".

Can you define spoiled? I'm not sure I am clear on the definition...

Xia Diaz said...

I love the superhero pic! How adorable!!! Buy them what you want! I want to buy Will everything and he's only 3 weeks old.

kristina said...

Definitely a young superhero (yours)!

GClef1970 said...

I swore I commented on this post. I laughed out loud at the picture of Tommy. He definitely looks like a Superhero with that determined look on his face. :-)