
These are Henry's homework papers from last week. I'm not sure how well you'll be able to see them out there on the internet, but there is a whole lot of Henry handwriting on these pages!
He brought home a book about hibernation to read, and then was to complete these sheets. I was anticipating that he would dictate his answers and one of us would actually do the writing. But after one afternoon of Super Teenage Sister working with him, this is the result. He wrote every letter on his own, and did both sheets in one sitting.
Henry had enough good days in a row last week that he received a prize from his teacher on Friday. I'm not clear on the criteria for earning a prize- what constitutes a "good" day? And do you have to have a full week of "good" days to earn a prize? (Last week was a short week due to MLK day, but an admirable achievement, nonetheless.)
The prize was a small Fantastic Four puzzle. His other bottom tooth came out last week also, and his teacher found it by the computer and sent it home the next day. So at least I have one of his baby teeth to keep in my jewelry box forever.
Considering his great week, I was caught off-guard by what happened on Saturday. My parents came to visit, and I suggested we go to Henry's school and play on the playground. They had never seen his school, and I thought Henry might like to show them around.
I was way off with that one. Henry DID NOT want to go to his school AT ALL. He protested on our way out the door and all the way there. He protests lots of times, and if we just keep on moving he gets over it. But not this time. I even tried dragging him up on the "wobbly bridge" to play, but nothing would budge his mood. He kept pinching my arms, and a couple times my face. Finally I just sat down and squeezed him on my lap, rocking back and forth.
"It feels nervous," he said
"It makes you feel nervous to come to your playground?"
"Yes."
I can only surmise that the whole thing seemed wrong to him: going to his school when it wasn't a school day; bringing Grandma and Grandpa there, his little brother being there too...
I'm very happy that he came up with "it feels nervous." I hope he'll be able to build on this with time.
He pinched me quite a bit on Sunday also, but I think for a different reason. We went to watch Bill's team's basketball game. Henry seemed excited to be there and seemed to be enjoying himself. But he pinched my arms a lot. I am hypothesizing that he was feeling "nervous" in a different way- an excited way- and maybe the pinching helps release that energy? I wonder if I got him something else to squeeze if it would help.
He is really cute with the girls on Bill's team (6th graders). When he goes along to practice sometimes he runs laps with them! They all seem to really like him, and vice versa. Conversely, though, when one player's first-grader sister and her mom came over to introduce themselves to me, Henry didn't even give the girl a glance. When I tried to ask him about her, his only comment was, "there are 2 Graces" (in first grade). He seems to think it is so crazy that there are 2 girls with the same name. (This girl's name was not Grace, so I don't know what that had to do with anything? Maybe Henry likes one of the Graces.)

7 comments:
WOW WOW WOW!!! Henry's handwriting is amazing! And what a great job he did keeping one letter in each square! (If anyone out there has trouble seeing it, try double clicking the picture to get a full-screen version of it. It worked for me.)
You'd think after all this time it wouldn't surprise me anymore that Henry and Bud are so similar. But they really do seem to be following a similar developmental path. Bud has just started being able to use words to give me more information about what he's feeling and why (I've had a blog post about it in draft form for about a week... I will finish it soon.) It sometimes startles me, because I've gotten so used to NOT getting that kind of information from him, but it's very cool.
We are ALL about the squishy balls at our house - they really help him when "it feels nervous." The best was one that Santa brought - a squishy outer ball, with a bunch of hard plastic balls inside that click together. Unfortunately it got a hole in it and the local toystore has them on back-order, but when they finally come in I'm going to buy a bunch of them. (Want me to send you one?)
Wow, the homework with all that writing is fantastic!!! And the prize for a whole week of "good" days, that's awesome.
I think you are probably right about the pinching because he was feeling excited at the game. Sometimes when I get excited I feel like pinching or squeezing someone or something. Usually I will squeeze my boys in a big bear hug.
Glad you got one of his baby teeth to have as a keepsake.
Fantastic job on the handwriting! Way to go Super Teenage Sister! Way to go Henry!
Before I even finished the post, I suspected what you suspected, that perhaps he felt it totally wrong and inappropriate to be at school on a non-school day, let alone on the playground, with his family.
Fabulous that he was able to verbalize that though! WOO HOO! As for the pinching, I agree with Mom-NOS, squish balls are the way to go, especially the ones that have different textures INside them.
What did we do before the invention of the squishy ball? Now, if only I could keep Charlie's clean......
Awesome job, Henry!! (on the handwriting AND the great week!)
I'm not surprised at Henry's reaction about the school because Conor is the same way with things like that. In fact, he has the same reactive tendencies of pinching my face. (what IS that??)
I love that Henry came out with "It feels nervous". Conor's is "I get scared". It probably feels absolutely awful and out-of-sorts to them. I echo mom-nos: I am so glad you told this story because it makes me look at my own little boy even more in wonder. Wow.
Great job with the writing Henry! He is such a smart boy! I love the expression "it feels nervous". Life at times, it (does) feel nervous. I can totally relate!
Kristin
Excellent work Henry! Bravo big guy! You must be so very proud of him. He is such a smart guy Gretchen, you've done such a great job with him and kudos to teenage sister too.
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